Fears

Do men ever feel unsafe?

Of course. Men are just not allowed to talk about it as much, and men arenโ€™t believed (or are belittled) when they say they are afraid or something bad actually happens to them.

When I got my ass kicked in middle school, that wasnโ€™t the worst part. The worst part was being made fun of for it afterwards, even by teachers, etc. Thereโ€™s nothing worse as a man than being perceived as weak and an easy target. I think women have a lot of trouble understanding this.

Then I learned how to fight. The hard way.

But men seem fearless to women for these reasons:

1) Showing fear makes it so much worse for you as a man. Makes you into an insta-target for other men and even women. So we donโ€™t.

2) We feel fear and do it anyway.

Women are allowed to express fear. Men are not. Simple as that.

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