Thatโs correct. โLocker room talkโ is something women believe men do because they themselves engage in it, but most men (the vast, vast majority) do not. However, itโs common for women! So itโs all projection.
I was in the army for five years. I never witnessed any โlocker roomโ talk at all. The closest I ever heard was something like, โRebecca was hot! I hope she likes me.โ Or something of that nature. Most of it was so vanilla and anodyne. And unlike in high school, in the army I was popular and well-liked. So it wasnโt like I was being excluded, etc.
