Avoid

Exactly.

Women have really shot themselves in the foot here; theyโ€™ve created an equilibrium where only horrible, entitled, harassing men will interact with them and normal, polite men will avoid at all costs.

And then they have the gall to be like, โ€œWhere are all the good men at?โ€ Lady, theyโ€™re over there, avoiding you just like you told them to do. Shocking.