Dates aren't "fun" for men. Women like the idea of speed dating bc it's window shopping. Being a man at speed dating is having the same shitty conversation 10 times and then getting scoffed at for not meeting some internal ideal and also not having the time to show your value https://t.co/n8syEiW3T7

— 𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕤 𝕝𝕒 𝕃𝕦𝕟𝕖 (@vers_laLune) July 7, 2025

True. Most dates for men are like a bad job interview. Especially first dates. And most women do in fact treat them like a job interview (with them in the role of interviewer) combined with a hostile interrogation. Speed dating would be that amped up 1000x. No sane man would show up for that. It allows women’s worst tendencies to flourish while making men subject to Stasi-style antagonistic questioning.

Not fun at all. No fucking mystery why men didn’t want to show up to that bullshit.