A girl that I was interested in asked me to buy her some yogurt. And deliver it to her in the middle of the night. Where she lived alone.
When I got there, we sat on the couch and she asked me to play with her hair as it felt good.
I still missed all the signs and didn’t realize it until years later. She must have thought I was so clueless. Which I was.
But sure, all men think about is sex. As for me, I just thought, “Huh, cool, she really likes yogurt and enjoys having her hair played with. That’s nice. She’s a cool person.”