What does it mean that when I see a woman, and I like the way she looks my brain goes “awwww” (not out loud that would be rude) and I get a burst of happiness, but don’t feel like having sex or fantasizing about it like i hear others do? Guys even less reaction.

I don’t think this is actually that unusual. Many guys don’t think about sex all the time, or all that frequently. I love sex and my reaction to seeing an attractive woman almost never is “I want to have sex with her.” And never has been. Even when I was a younger man and my libido was much higher, I was not primarily sexually motivated.

I know that feminists don’t allow it, but not every man is the same. And I’m lazy. Sex is a lot of work and often more hassle than it’s worth. And I say that as someone who loves sex, again.

So…seems pretty normal to me.