Just realized that โditzinessโ in women considered to be attractive is probably/almost certainly the exact same phenomenon in men that supposedly signals higher intelligence โ that of the Asperegerโs or Aspergerโs-like obliviousness to certain social cues and expectations.
Thinking about it, I canโt really see any difference.
Funny that the same behavior can be read so differently, even when supported by no evidence.