I think one of the main ways I differ from most men is that I just donโt really have any animosity towards women at all and it doesnโt change my opinion of a woman in any way if sheโs in skimpy clothes, nude, or has had sex with 500 dudes. I just fundamentally donโt think that way and I canโt even imagine how to think that way.
Perhaps this is just due to my completely un-prudish nature, which is largely just the way Iโve always been. I donโt know.
A friend of mine who modeled nude for me a long time ago (she volunteered, I did not ask her), when I still took pictures of people rather than bugs, said the reason she was comfortable modeling for me is because she I knew I wouldnโt treat her any differently afterwards. And she was right, of course. Because why would I?
Anyway, I understand men not at all. Women are supposed to be mysterious or whatever, but to me, men are more of a conundrum.