Are men truly unable to function around a beautiful woman & do they realize itโs happening?
I donโt usually notice what someone looks like really while I am talking to them. I have to devote all my social processing power to interaction. I think this actually helps me because I donโt treat really beautiful (or unattractive) women any differently.
My social skills are pretty good these days but Iโm not a natural, so I must devote 100% CPU time to have those skills seem fluid and normal. If a woman in exceptionally attractive I might think later, โOh, she was prettyโ but it doesnโt register at the time. Itโs a rare case where my compensation for underdeveloped social skills courtesy of North Florida trauma actually helps me, I think. Beautiful women donโt intimidate me in the least because Iโm barely aware of what they look like when Iโm interacting.