Something I think they don’t tell men about dating ever: the exact same action, practice, behavior or way of being one woman can describe as creepy and horrible while another woman can love, be strongly attracted to, or demand nothing less than.

And no one reveals this shit to you — you just learn it yourself. Though many guys give up first because I think most women don’t actually want you to know this (to reduce competition). There’s extremely, extremely high variance out there, though. Just FYI.