Rocker Loom

Thatโ€™s correct. โ€œLocker room talkโ€ is something women believe men do because they themselves engage in it, but most men (the vast, vast majority) do not. However, itโ€™s common for women! So itโ€™s all projection.

I was in the army for five years. I never witnessed any โ€œlocker roomโ€ talk at all. The closest I ever heard was something like, โ€œRebecca was hot! I hope she likes me.โ€ Or something of that nature. Most of it was so vanilla and anodyne. And unlike in high school, in the army I was popular and well-liked. So it wasnโ€™t like I was being excluded, etc.