The Real Disorder

Only in America could anyone believe that controlling what you eat and exercising regularly is harmful “disordered eating” and is detrimental to your body, respectively.

WHAT KIND OF HORRIBLE FUCKING CRACK ARE WE SMOKING

Speaking

Do men just recognize good men? What kind of sorcery is this?

Part of if is that even terrible guys are — for a little while anyway — going to be on their best behavior around women in which they are interested.

Another part is that many women are extremely delusional about how they can “fix” the bad boys that many of them seem to love nearly unreservedly (I guess because they are exciting?). This never works. I have not seen this “fix” happen even once. So they end up with some unemployed meth-addled loser who doesn’t have any real future and doesn’t even like them.

Meanwhile, I and most other men can sense exactly who these guys are in a thirty second conversation and often much less.

And no, it’s not that I (or other men, except incels) think these women should be with them instead or that I or we’d be better for them. Frankly, I don’t want to be with someone whose ideal partner is a meth-addicted clown.

A lot of women go on and on about how much they care about their safety but then choose an objectively dangerous mega-loser who is going to perhaps kill them. Many men (including me) look at this and it just seems freakin’ crazy to us. I still do not understand how that works and I think I never will.

Twitter

Because it now requires login and I refuse to create an account, I just stopped visiting anything on Twitter. I don’t really miss it.

Elon bought it (and was permitted to finance it) to kill it anyway, and to do so with plausible deniability. And that’s exactly what’s happening. The plutes and powerful fucking hated it and its destruction was the plan all along.

Oath

It’s only in the new 10-minute Taylor’s Version of “All Too Well” (not the original album version), but the “You kept me like a secret, but I kept you like an oath” line is such great fucking writing. I rarely envy what others have penned because I am a damn fine writer myself, but that is such an evocative line that I wish I’d written it.

It’d only work in a song but damn does it ever. Because of misogyny and that she started out in country, Swift has been accused of being talentless by pure mediocrities, but she’s written (or co-written) more great songs than just about anyone alive.

Last House

Airbnb revenue collapse sparks housing market crash fears.

Learning nothing from the last housing crash in 2006-2011, people forget that the housing market is quite sticky and takes time to decline. This is one of the necessary first steps till the true downward slide begins.

YOY, to be clear, the housing market is already in decline in most places. But it’ll get worse gradually as the entire time people claim, “There’s going to be another upswing next quarter!”

I mean, eventually they’ll be right. After house prices have fallen 30-50% that is.

Tame

Aspartame is “artificial” and benefits many people, causing a lot of other people to hate it. It’s not risky at all.

One Way

People are always surprised when you predict something that is extremely predictable, and when you know something on little information that could’ve for obvious reasons only happened one way.

The world is often strange and stochastic, but just as often events and actions are pretty damn foreseeable. Perhaps wisdom is knowing the difference.

Tay Time

This is such a great thread. Read it; it’s worth it.

It articulates something I’ve been attempting to express for a while about the neoliberalization and Taylorization of the human mind and spirit. When I’ve asserted things like that people should be able to find romance at work, should be able to have sex just for fun, should be able to act as more than robots in public life, and should be able to just enjoy things in general, even some of my friends have pushed back.

But though they are my friends, they are wrong. Life is more than what your boss thinks of you and how sweet that 4% raise is gonna be. At least it should be. And it could be if we made it that way.

Spanner

Exactly. I’m trying to get better at Spanish because we’re in an area where Spanish is pretty heavily used, and I’m in my own fucking country! And that’s great. I love going out and hearing half a dozen different languages.

I’ll never be a fluent Spanish speaker tbh — because I don’t really like talking to people that much. But being able to understand it and read the language matters too. Also, I try to learn like a dozen languages at once and though I have a big fucking brain, that puts some boundaries on any progress in any particular language. But I’m having fun.

Declown Please

The weird liberal austerity nonsense is going to torpedo any chances of actual improvement. Degrowth is a clown world belief. Take away any good food, travel, drinks, air conditioning and the ability to do anything fun — well, why even bother living then?

This must be resisted. It’s not the path.