My girlfriend had sex with a guy she met few days while she was waiting for me but now we’re official she asked me to be patient to wait until she’s ready to have sex?

This is where men get accused of things like “YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111” when it’s the feeling of being less important than some random clown that is really what’s going on. This is almost always the case, though it plays out in different ways.

The reality is that a lot of women use sex as a weapon. And men react to that weaponization. As anyone should.

Women are often more obsessed with sex than men, just in different (and typically more harmful) ways.