โWhen I sketched out the rough idea of it to a friend, he listened carefully and then shook his head. โI donโt think youโve got anything new to say about AIDS, Steve.โ He paused and added, โEspecially as a straight man.โ
No. And no. And especially: no.
I hate the assumption that you canโt write about something because you havenโt experienced it, and not just because it assumes a limit on the human imagination, which is basically limitless. It also suggests that some leaps of identification are impossible. I refuse to accept that, because it leads to the conclusion that real change is beyond us, and so is empathy. The idea is false on the evidence.โ
-Stephen King
(That sums up so very well why I despise โonly write or make movies about people exactly like you, or youโre irreddeemably evilโ line of thought. Funny, itโs like he gets paid to write well or something.)