It’s kind of weird to be fit enough that every time I go into a crowded grocery store at least 2-3 women stare at me thirstily.
I can see how women would get tired of that sort of attention, though I think they complain about it too much (because it’s a way of saying, “I’m so attractive!” without directly starting it). But that’s from the perspective of the average man, who often gets absolutely no attention at all ever. That is the default male experience — invisibility and disposability.
Women can claim what they like, but it’s a horrible way to live.