An asexual person on TikTok once told me that she considers anyone who’s not asexual to be a “groomer” – things are wild on the internet https://t.co/bd5Idl2J1W

— Natalia Antonova 🇺🇸🇺🇦 (@NataliaAntonova) August 9, 2025

I’ve seen that sentiment too.

It’s also a fairly common liberal belief that any men’s expression of interest in any woman is “grooming,” because women are innocent, delicate little flowers and men’s sexuality is deviant and dangerous by merely existing.

This belief is not even that uncommon.