Itโs become accepted, uh, โwisdomโ in the Fat Acceptance community that if a woman deliberately misrepresents herself in photos and/or lies about her weight, if the man then goes on to reject her then it is a โdouble standard.โ
However if I told these same women I was 6โ2โณ when in reality I am 5โ8โณ, you know what Iโd be? Rejected. And you know what theyโd be? Fucking right to do so.