Since women largely control the dating market, many of them set absurd standards that they themselves aren’t anywhere close to meeting. Many will thus rightly die alone. Sometimes it might happen that a woman who is at best a 3 in personality and looks bags an 8 to 10 dude, but it don’t happen often. And yet many women expect this and will settle for nothing less.
Ah well, the cats need cat ladies. Works for me.