Datedness

Young women fall out of love with dating apps.

Young women have nearly unlimited options in the dating realm*. As a man who doesnโ€™t have to also endure (as much) harassment as women experience, this seems like a magical wonderland โ€” since even an average woman receives something like 200x as much interest as even an above-average man. For a man to receive as much interest as even a below-average woman, he has to be in the top 0.5% of men or so.

Even an extremely-attractive man (top 0.01%) typically does not even receive as much interest as an average woman. And this is why dating for men really fucking sucks.

But back to the topic at hand: women, with nearly unlimited options and vast power in the dating market, resent when they are at all treated like men and face any form of rejection. Additionally, at least 50% of women on dating apps use it as a form of validation and/or re-enacting past traumas rather than to actually, you know, date.

This comment also said it pretty well.

However, the reality is women โ€“ especially in the US โ€“ have been told for the last several decades that theyโ€™re all magical fairy tale sparkle princesses.

Weโ€™ve arrived at an imbalance where one group has wildly over-inflated estimation of self-worth and market value all clawing over a small percentage of the other group perceived to be top quality partners based on metrics that scarcely matter anymore while almost completely ignoring the remaining 98%.

College educated professional career women no longer reliant on the income of a male partner shouldnโ€™t need to be chasing high income male partners; itโ€™s some kind of darkly hilarious admission they still want security from someone else and are subconsciously still locked in a mind prison of centuries-old gender roles.

Exactly. Luckily, I already have an amazing partner. But if I did not, Iโ€™d definitely not even attempt to date an American woman. Iโ€™d be in Europe somewhere, where womenโ€™s mental health has not been so blasted to hell by social media and idiotic ideas.

As that comment noted, a majority of women are competing over maybe ~5% of men. And this works about as well as youโ€™d expect. In this case, women deserve their unhappiness and resentment. Theyโ€™ve earned it.

*And I am told this does not give them any power at all, no sir. Of course, this is a lie.