Ladies, serious question: why do some of y’all get upset when your man is gaming, but spending 3+ hours scrolling TikTok is somehow different? Isn’t that just your version of a hobby? Why not do something you enjoy while he’s doing his thing?

This seems common. I’m not even a gamer, but a past horrible girlfriend would get enraged that I spent 45 minutes (about as long as I ever spent as I get migraines after that) playing Unreal Tournament. Meanwhile, she would spend 6-7 hours straight on eBay.

When called out on it she’d say that, “It’s different.” Different, how? In UT, I spent zero money. She spent thousands on eBay and other sites like that.

So glad I’m done with terrible partners.