Say v. Do

This piece is, largely, full of terrible advice. The problem with it is that is a man parroting a woman’s bien pensant tall tales about what she believes about herself. Which, like what most people believe about themselves (men included), is largely false

There is a technique to talking to women which is far more effective. It is called: treat them like a fucking human being. Just actually talk to them. If you must, imagine that they are a man and then talk to them the way you would in that scenario.

Oh my fucking god that so does not work. That’s the quickest way to failure known, especially in any kind of dating or romantic context. Yes, yes, treat women human beings. But the problem here is that a woman is not a man. Treating her like one will lead to nothing but, well…nothing. Certainly no romantic spark if that’s what you’re looking for.

This is a version of listening to what women say rather than observing what they do. And those things do not match at all.

The article is either full of obvious platitudes or worthless drivel otherwise. Typical for “dating advice” of this type.

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