Look Elsewhere

Whatโ€™s a stereotype about men that feels especially inaccurate to you?

That the only thing we care about is sex.

Are women basing this off how men behaved when they were 16? Or what’s going on here? I think at least some of it comes from the men that women most often encounter tend to be this way because they are the most pushy and the most bold.

But for 99%+ of men, it’s just completely false.

My advice to women: if you want to find men who care about more than just sex, look around a bit more. The jerk might seem crazy hot to you, or at least be right in front of your face, but there are more men out there than that. And most of them want more than a quick lay.

Trust me on this. Also, get a male friend. He can identify the mega-abusive jerks in a fraction of a second (nearly all men can). And most women cannot, for whatever reason.

Transterpolate

I did not realize that when other people learn other languages they are translating the words from the foreign language into their native language forever in their heads. At least, most everyone. When I learn to read a language well enough (and it doesn’t take me long), no more translation. “Jaune” in French for me doesn’t have to be converted to “yellow” anymore for me, for instance. It works just the same as my English “yellow.” It’s directly mapped.

And I guess that has to do with how my mind works in that area, but I legitimately did not know that most people were doing the two-step translation. Explains a lot, though.

Read Me In

What is a ‘privilege’ you have that you didn’t realize was a privilege until you saw how other people live?

Off the charts reading comprehension and ability to quickly understand nearly anything. I didn’t truly realize until I was well into adulthood how much of a superpower this is as well as what advantages it gives me.

And for a long time I thought other people just weren’t trying, but it wasn’t that. They just didn’t have the capability. That I could read something in two minutes and understand it all and the entire superstructure of thought behind (and ahead) of it and contextualize it effortlessly while they could spend two hours reading the same work or document and get nearly nothing out of it was a real eye-opener.

This talent certainly made my life vastly better than it otherwise would’ve been. It means I can do “impossible” stuff like day-trade and solve problems in minutes that take other people hours, days, weeks or years.

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