And the thing is, hardly anyone was sexualizing Alysa Liu — just noting that she’s extremely attractive due to both her looks and (even more so) her personality.

Nearly all of the time (including this one) that this sort of complaint comes from a woman, it’s just intrasexual competition playing out and is safe (and best) to ignore.

Wil is right; it’s totally normal to find attractive people attractive. My god, that this even has to be said is fucking ridiculous.